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第22章选择乐观
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Ifyouexpeethingtoturnoutbadly，itprobablywill.Pessi-mismisseldomdisappoihesameprinciplealsoworksinreverse.Ifyouexpectgoodthingstohappen，theyusuallydo！
Thereseemstobeanaturald-effectrelatioimismandsuccess.
Optimismandpessimismarebothpowerfulfordeaustchooseanttoshapeouroutlookaions.Thereisenoughgoodandbadineveryone'slife-amplesorroiness，suffitjoyandpain-tofindarationalbasisforeitheroptimismorpessimisWechoosetolaughorcry，blessorcurse.It'sourdewhichperspectivedowewanttovieelookupinhopeordownindespair？
Ibelieveintheupwardlook.Ichoosetohighlightthepositiveandsliprightative.Iamanoptimistbyuature.Sure，Iknowthatsorrowexists.Iaminmy70snoos;velivedthroughmorethanonecrisis.Butwhenallissaidanddone，Ifindthatthegoodiweighsthebad.
Anoptimisticattitudeisnotaluxury；it'sahewayyoulookatlifewilldeterminehowyoufeel，howyouperform，andhoillgetalongwithotherpeople.versely，s，attitudes，aiohemselves；theybeeaself-fulfillingprophecy.Pessimismcreatesadismalplaooolive.
Yearsago，Idroveiatiosomegas.Itwasabeautifulday，andIwasfeeli.AsIwalkediiontas，theattendantsaidtome，"Howdoyoufeel？"Thatseemedlikeaion，butIfeltfioldhimso."Youdon'tlookwell，"hereplied.Thistookmepletelybysurprise.Alittlelesstly，ItoldhimthatIhader.WithouthesitatioiellmehowbadIlookedandthatmyskinappearedyellow.
BythetimeIlefttheservi，Iwasfeelingalittleuneasy.Aboutablockaulledovertothesideoftheroadtolookatmyfathemirror.HowdidIfeel？WasIjaundiced？Waseverythingallright？BythetimeIgothome，Iwasbeginlequeasy.DidIhaveabadliver？HadIpieraredisease？
&imeIwentintothatgasstation，feelingfineagain，Ifiguredouteheplacehadretlybeenpaintedabright，biliousyellow，areflegoffthewallsmadeeveryoneinsidelookasthoughtheyhadhepatitis！
IwonderedhowmanyotherfolkshadreactedthewayIdid.IhadletoversationwithatergemyattitudeforaoldmeIlookedsidbef，Iwasactuallyfeelingsick.ThatsiiveobservationhadaprofouhewayIfeltandacted.
&hingmorepowerfulthaivismisapositiveaffirmation，awordofoptimismandhope.OhingsIammostthankfulforisthefactthatIhavegrownupinanationwithagrandtraditionofoptimisWheureadoptsanupwardlook，ihingsbeaplished.Whentheworldisseenasahopeful，positiveplace，peopleareempotandtoachieve.
Optimismdoesn'tobenaive.Weoptimistandstillreizethatproblemsexistandthatsomeofthemareheasily.Butwhatadiffereimismmakesiudeoftheproblemsolver！
Optimismdivertsourattentiativismaopositive，struking.os;reanoptimist，you'remoreedwithproblem-solvingthanwithuselessgaboutissues.Infaism，issuesasbigandongoiyhaveion.Ittakesadreamer-someohhopelesslyoptimisticideas，greatpersistenlimitedce-totathatbig.It'syourchoice.
如果你预料某事会很糟糕，那么它很可能真会这样。
悲观的想法一般都能实现。
反过来，这个原理同样成立。
如果你料想会好运连连，通常也会这样！
乐观和成功之间似乎有一种天然的因果关系。
乐观和悲观都是强大的力量，我们塑造和展望未来，都必须从中作出选择。
每个人的生命中都有太多的幸运或灾难：充满着忧伤和快乐、无限的喜悦和痛苦——不论我们是悲观还是乐观，都有充分的理由。
我们可以选择哭或笑、祝福或诅咒。
这是我们的决定：选择用什么样的眼光来看待人生？是在希望中昂首阔步，还是在绝望中低头长叹？
我喜欢展望未来。
我选择关注积极面，忽视消极面。
我是乐观主义者，更多的是因为我的选择，而非天性。
当然，我知道，生命中总存在着悲伤。
现在，我已经70多岁了，经历过太多灾难。
但是，当一切尘埃落定，我发现生命中的美好远多于丑恶。
乐观的态度并非奢侈品，而是一种必需。
你看待生活的方式决定了你如何去感受、去表现，以及你与他人如何相处。
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